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Wedding Timeline
Nine to Twelve Months Before:
● Pick out engagement ring with fiancé. ● Determine who will officiate at the ceremony. ● Select a wedding date and time. ● Announce your engagement in the newspaper. ● Determine how many guests may attend. ● Determine the type of wedding you want (size, formality, style, color scheme). ● Select and order the bridesmaids’ dresses. ● Establish a preliminary budget. ● Select and secure a photographer. ● Select a caterer if not already provided by the reception. ● Select and secure your reception location. ● Select and secure you ceremony location. ● Begin choosing your wedding cake baker, videographer, musicians and florist. Sign necessary contracts.
Six to Nine Months Before:
● Start compiling the guest list (inform your families to do the same). ● Select the attendants for your wedding party. ● Shop for wedding dress, headpiece, veil, etc. ● Start planning for honeymoon. ● Register with a gift bridal registry in your favorite store(s).
Four to Six Months Before:
● Make appointment for a physical exam with your doctor/dentist. ● Check requirements for blood test and marriage license in your state. ● Shop for wedding rings. ● Select and order the invitations and stationery. ● Decide where to live after the wedding. ● Complete the guest lists. ● Begin shopping for trousseau. ● Send your engagement announcement to the newspaper. ● Inform mothers to select their dresses. ● Select and order the men’s attire. ● Finalize honeymoon details and make the necessary reservations.
Two to Four Months Before:
● Confirm the menu and catering details with the caterer. ● Prepare all maps and directions for the ceremony and reception. ● Select your wedding rings. ● Buy a wedding guest book. ● Set the dates and times with the officiate for the rehearsal. ● Plan the bridesmaids’ luncheon and any other parties. ● Determine your resources for designing and printing the program for the ceremony. ● Finalize the florist details, photographer, videographer, musicians, etc. ● Arrange the necessary accommodations for out-of-town guests. ● Plan a rehearsal dinner, time and place. ● Confirm the wedding cake details with the baker.
Six to Eight Weeks Before:
● Mail invitations and announcements. ● Prepare a portrait for the newspaper. Check your local newspaper for details and timing. ● Set appointment with photographer for your formal bridal portrait. ● Select gifts for all your attendants. ● Set appointments with any hair dressers and/or make-up artists. ● Hire the limousine or other forms of transportation for the wedding.
Four to Six Weeks Before:
● Decide what your menu is going to be for the reception. Estimate the expected number of guests. ● Buy a gift for the groom. ● Schedule a final fitting for your gown so it can be ready for your formal bridal portrait. ● Purchase a going away outfit. ● Pick up your wedding rings. ● Purchase (borrow) all wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, goblets, garter belt, candles, etc. ● Confirm florist details and delivery times. ● Plan the seating for the reception as well as other details for the ceremony and reception. ● Start writing placement cards. ● Make sure all bridesmaids’ attire has been fitted. ● Buy a gift for the bride.
Two Weeks Before:
● Make arrangements to have your wedding gifts moved to your new home. ● Handle business and legal details such as name changes, address changes, etc. ● Prepare the wedding announcement for the newspaper. ● Reconfirm your guests’ accommodations. ● Make sure all clothing and accessories for you and the bridal party are ready. ● Get your marriage license and any blood tests which are needed.
One Week Before:
● Review any seating details with the ushers. ● Make sure all wedding attire fits. ● Finalize the seating arrangements. ● Reconfirm your honeymoon reservations. Ensure you have any necessary plane tickets. ● Start packing for your honeymoon. ● Call any guests who have not responded yet. ● Finish all the place cards for the reception. ● Review all the final details with your photographer, videographer, etc. ● Give a final head count to the caterer. ● Confirm the availability of the musicians and vocalists. ● Delegate responsibilities to reliable individuals on your wedding day. ● Wrap and present the wedding party gifts. ● Finalize your rehearsal dinner arrangements and other plans.
One Day Before:
● Get a manicure or massage to relax yourself. ● Stay with your family the night before and go to sleep early. ● Review and rehearse all the details of your participants.
The Big Day:
● Make sure the best man and maid of honor sign the wedding certificate. ● Allow yourself plenty of time to get dressed. ● Enjoy your wonderful wedding and cherish each and every moment. ● Be sure to eat properly. ● Rest and relax with a good bath. ● Prepare for your hairdresser and make-up appointments.
After the Wedding:
● Send thank you notes as soon as possible after the wedding. ● Have bridal gown cleaned and preserved. ● Change your name on ID and important documents. ● Complete change of address cards.
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